Our Town: Use social media to its fullest potential
I think I’m on a roll here. I have been addressing what I have recently seen in the community that seems hostile and deserves more delving into; social media has been playing a big role in all of this. I think we need a better understanding of how to use the wide open frontier of the digital world—how to access and assess the sentiments of communities whether it be on the local or national level.During the last year or so I have seen so much more mention of social media in the public discussion of our community. There are forums and Facebook pages and all kinds of places to go get information, find kindred spirits, and express yourself.Along these lines, a speaker at this year’s State of the Valley Address spoke about how we are not using social media to its fullest potential. The means is out there to create an environment where an open and flowing dialogue can take place with relevant information and sentiment being shared in an almost instantaneous manner.Unfortunately, I feel that almost every time I see a meaningful dialogue beginning to happen in social media there is someone with a strong emotional bias that wants to monopolize the conversation.On so many occasions I have seen someone who feels negatively about an issue dominate a conversation, often ignoring facts. In one example earlier this year, 24 out of approximately 50 posts on a subject regarding the downtown were by the same two people.I think we need to figure out how to truly understand what we are seeing in social media for it to become reliably relevant in any decision making process.We need to be cognizant of the effect of something called “negativity bias” which makes it much easier to mobilize someone angry about an issue than it is to get someone content or supportive of an idea to do something about it. This is the strength of many in the community who disagree with what the City Council, School Board, or even a local Homeowners Association might be doing that involves change or a perceived limitation of rights. They have the power to mobilize many based upon one of our strongest emotions—anger.We should be aware that the apparent majority showing up in social media can be the result of well orchestrated planning and the use of electronic messaging. On one issue, I heard both sides complain about this.We should realize that most of the 40,000 plus residents of our community don’t get involved because things are just fine with them. It’s hard to mobilize a group of people who are happy with the way things are.The potential to marginalize what we can glean from social media is tempting, but instead let’s develop a better understanding of how to use it and truly interpret what we are seeing. There is so much good feedback out there that we should be using it, we just need to understand what it really means.And maybe if we all act civil we won’t need to do so much interpretation.John McKay is a Morgan Hill resident, city planning commissioner and co-founder of the Morgan Hill Tourism Alliance.
De-Decorating, It’s in the Bag
Here it is, in writing; my declaration that this is my last year of being the sole decorator. Here’s how it went down a couple of years ago, and I’m still emotionally scarred.
‘A Gentleman’s Guide to Love and Murder’ review
“A Gentleman’s Guide to Love and Murder” won four Tony’s in the 2014 Broadway season. The book and lyrics are by Robert L. Freedman and music and lyrics are by Steven Lutvak.
All is Bright
Christmas has been a sticking point in our house for over a decade, and we're at a stalemate.
Letter to the editor: Good news in the Southeast Quad
Dear City of Morgan Hill,My understanding is that the Catholic Diocese is to begin construction in 2016 on the South County Catholic High School. This is very positive news of a project brought to fruition. We needmore projects that benefit all of humankind in the Southeast Quadrant (SEQ).In September, I met with the founder of a national Montessori franchise to view sites in the BayArea. His franchise is opening several new locations in the U.S.There is interest in Morgan Hill, but in order for a Montessori franchise to be profitable, there needs to be 85 to 100 students enrolled at all times. We agreed to stay in contact; with SiliconValley so close to Morgan Hill, this type of academic program seems so vital. This academic application would be a positive complement to the academic environment of the Catholic High School.I am happy with this progressive forward advancement, as it benefits my family's property as well. We have encountered setbacks beyond control in the past, but I am determined to one day bring a very positive and lucrative business to my family property, as I also hope to work with our government officials to present laws and bills, that are taken seriously and passed.If not for what my family endured, I would have a custom home business to serve as a senior residential or other allowed land use built on my family property by now, generating a very lucrative income and serving both the community and our family trust and business.Best regards,Julie Borina DriscollMorgan Hill
‘The 39 Steps’–A hilarious chaotic romp with Hitchcock
Kenneth Kelleher directs this production of “The 39 Steps” with a giggle and a gasp. Once the production starts it moves with an energy that keeps moving at a nonstop pace.
Hiking where summer looks like springtime
Yes, California's golden (read: brown) hills are lovely, but even in non-drought years our mid-summer landscape seems coated by a dusty tinge that makes me long for a cool verdant setting. Fortunately for us, medicine for parched souls is just over the hill.
Guest view: Technology is deafening our kids
Can you hear me now?Listen up. There’s an event happening in America that’s sweeping children and teenagers’ lives that’s causing deafness. It’s been happening for the past 25 years. It’s not a virus; it’s a socially accepted technologically driven addition conveniently made available. Communication devices for school learning and online testing, and music enjoyment are being strapped to the ears of youths from kindergarten through college and beyond that is deafening Americans.Your children are at risk. Oh, it’s less than the CDC recommendations of 85 db, you might convince yourself. And I’ve purchased a limiting feature, so I’m covered. Ah, strapping those headphones on your little children’s’ ears sends a message to them that it’s OK to listen in this manner. When they become stubborn, independent teens with the newest earbud and listening device marketed to us, “Mom’s nowhere in sight, hearing this piece of music loud is fantastic!” Oh, yes it is. This is how the deafening of our children occurs. It’s gradual.My first son started using headphones as early as 6 years old in 1992 and continued through high school with each advancing music device marketed—new headphones, new earbuds, loud music listening occurred at school, on the school bus and in his bedroom. The devastating announcement made to me from the audiologist with my 15-year-old son sitting in the doctor’s office went like this: “I’m sorry to tell you, but your son has considerable hearing loss, and it’s permanent and he should never use headphones again, because it just furthers his hearing decline.”Then the ENT doctor went on to tell me that sound should never be delivered next to the human ear, because it wears the ear out and causes deafness.One thing had changed since I grew up—the loud music coming from our bedroom stereos is now turned inward, pumped right into the ear canals of my sons, and I didn’t hear a thing.Sneaky little devils, aren’t they? The way a new device is marketed to us under the fantastic name of “technological advancement?’’One thing has not changed though—our human ears. Our ears are not built to receive sound close to the ear for repeated periods and at loud volumes. Irreparable hearing damage occurs and only worsens with aging. Hearing loss is cumulative, and most people, including my teenagers, had to be dragged to the auditory specialists for a hearing test. When was the last time you had a hearing test? Mine was two years ago and I have hearing losses due to living with the abundant increase in listening devices due to the onslaught of technology, loud concert music events (oh, I loved those!), and loud movie theaters.I recently took my 5-year-old to the local theatre and he complained, “This is too loud Mom, I do not want to go back!”The tears of mothers dwell in rivers. My first son, soon to turn 29, has deafness caused by technology’s great advancement of headphones and earbuds. Your child came into this world new and wonderful. Isn’t it our responsibility to keep them safe and as healthy as possible?Please take some time to read the facts that no one is talking about. If we ignore JAMA’s (Journal of American Medical Association) current data studies and doctors’ recommendations, then in the future, are we going to ignore the educated recommendations of the very children we are currently educating? If a glass of water is poison, is teaching our children to take small frequent sips of it still okay?I hope you gain some insight from my experience and these medical facts, so you can make an informed decision about whether you want to begin your child’s hearing loss or not. Sincerely,Carol SternMorgan Hill
Our Town: Wine and dine downtown
Rosy’s at the Beach restaurant has been hosting what has to be the longest regularly scheduled party in Morgan Hill. For over 12 years, the restaurant has invited locals to a wine pairing dinner on the second Wednesday of every month that has created a cult-like following of wine and food lovers.The dinners introduce the lucky diners to wines from some of the finest California vintners and provide a wonderful opportunity to try dishes not normally found on the menu. But regular attendees also know to expect a healthy dose of fun-filled camaraderie.Some attendees arrive early and decorate their tables in different themes while the buzz of others meeting their friends grows louder by the minute. There’s no mistaking the increasingly festive atmosphere as soon as you enter.The speaker from each evening’s guest winery will tell you about the wines, and it helps if you’re taking notes because there is always a quiz during these dinners. A random drawing decides which guests will be asked the questions, but it’s not often that the chosen reveler will be unable to answer correctly because the room becomes a “lifeline” to help answer as a collective mind. Over time, almost everyone will walk away with a bottle of wine as the winner, even if it was a collective win.These dinners also provide chefs with an opportunity to show how creative they can be. After almost 15 years, owner and chef Rich Bergin has turned that responsibility over to new chef Luis and he is more than up to the task. Creative pairings of wine and food highlight the unique ability for certain ingredients in food to make a wine’s flavors change right before your nose.The dinners’ cult-like following has made it difficult for those outside of the current group of ticket holders to break into the dinner routine. As a matter of fact, current ticket holders offered with the option to buy more tickets can only order 5 of the 6 available months to allow room for others.I hate to tease you with such a fun and educational evening, but the good news is that Ladera Grill is also hosting a regularly scheduled series of winemaker dinners. This experience is every bit as special.Earlier this year, the Morgan Hill Downtown Association promoted a Wine Week where these winemaker dinners were the norm. Most of the downtown restaurants participated. All of these meals provided diners with an opportunity to get close to the winemakers, and offered special meals. As a result, we now know our restaurants are up to the task of making food and wine into something memorable.I hope more of our restaurants will offer a regular series of winemaker dinners.John McKay is a Morgan Hill resident, city planning commissioner and co-founder of the Morgan Hill Tourism Alliance.














